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I have a problem with weed, which is funny because it might not be precisely what you are thinking. Let me explain.
When I moved to the countryside about 16 years ago, we decided to plant beautiful things around the house, and I still believe it was an excellent decision. Today, there is a front row with plenty of rosemary, an alley with big platanus, orchards that sometimes present us with fruits, and many Leyland that keep the winter days always green around us. The environment has changed dramatically for the better, much better.
But I have a problem!
The problem is that something started to grow slowly over time around those beautiful things that we had planted. At first, I didn’t notice—well, let’s be honest, I did see—but I thought they were growing so slowly that I could always catch and control it. I felt that I could do it tomorrow or next week. Unfortunately, tomorrow became next month, and next month became next year. One day, when I was looking around the house, I noticed that the precious things I care about were dying little by little, and that’s what I want to talk to you about.
According to Wikipedia, a weed is a plant considered undesirable in a particular situation, growing where it conflicts with human preferences, needs, or goals. A weed tends to overgrow or choke out more desirable plants. Ouch!
Think about what you think are the “weeds” growing slowly around you and threatening to choke the very best of yourself.
The real problem is speed. Things that grow slowly tend to occupy a blind spot in the mirror of our lives. Little by little, without much surprise, they become part of the scenery, part of your life, just like it happened around my house. So, what do you think can be the “weed” in your life?
Is it the exercise you know you should do but keep delaying the starting day? Is it the job you keep promising but have yet to pursue? Is it the way you eat, knowing that it is time for a change? Is it the way you don’t protect your rest and sleep? What about those hard conversations you have been delaying making relationships so oddly uncomfortable?
Whatever it is, you know better than anyone else what is growing slowly inside your “garden.”
My takeaway from my problem with weed is that if you truly care about something, you need to care, you need to pay attention, and it is never too late to start. In the beginning, you might need to make an extra effort to gain control over a situation, but it will pay off for months, years, and lives to come.
If you see something growing that doesn’t belong in your future, don’t be lazy. Go there and take it away. Clean it up, leave it exactly the way you want it to be. Don’t let the beautiful garden of your life be surrounded by weeds that sooner or later will kill you. Keep it tight. Care about relationships, care about friendship, and care about yourself. As a consequence, you will care about the world around you.
Summer vacations for many of us are around the corner, stop for a moment and think about it. Please check :
- Time spent with family and friends—Do you see time allocated exclusively and regularly in your agenda to be with your loved ones? Is there a particular person you have been delaying or forgetting to spend time with? Make a phone call, visit, or just message to ask if everything is ok.
- Time spent with yourself – Is there any moment you allocate to yourself during the week? Do you consciously decide to block time in the agenda to read, step away from your desk, watch the sunrise, or try your hardest to do nothing?
- Finally, the “mother” of many troubles – The Consumption of Information – How do you “feed” your mind? What criteria do you use to choose what to see, read, learn, or listen to?
Now it is time to shut down the computer and say, until next month, in the meantime, I will go outside and continue to get rid of that nasty weed in the “garden”.
Let’s keep walking :)
WHAT HAVE WE BEEN DOING?
Podcast
This month we had the pleasure of hosting Phil Cousineau in our podcast.
Embark on a unique journey through history, wisdom, and music. Phil is an award-winning writer and filmmaker, story consultant and editor, travel leader, and inspirational speaker on myth in the modern world. His life-long fascination with the art, literature, and history of culture has taken him on many journeys in many realms. He lectures frequently on a wide range of topics–from mythology, film, and writing to beauty, travel, sports, and creativity. He has published more than 40 books and has earned 25 scriptwriting credits.
Phil is an extraordinary human being. Enjoy!
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PROGRAMS
On July 12th, we took the road to Serras do Porto with the Católica Porto Business School MBA program. It was a fantastic day with amazing people, walking towards the best version of ourselves. The program Burn(Out) Stress combines mentoring, Walking, and Nature in a beautiful setting.
Watch the video here
At the end of July, we welcomed the WM Week for Parents & Kids on the Coast of Galicia. This program is designed to be one of the most memorable weeks for you and your son/daughter.
We have prepared a blend of dynamics, games, adventure moments, and walking trails that will lead us through unique landscapes and also a cultural, historical, and gastronomic immersion. All our activities are “wrapped” around the survival kit methodology, where the ultimate objective is to support developing the core of your relationship.
Watch the video here
UPCOMING PROGRAMS
As we approach the second half of the year, below are our upcoming programs with available places.
NEW PROGRAM – 2 places
Are you ready to escape the chaos of daily life and reconnect with your true self? Join mentors Tatiana and Natalia for the Slow Down program in the South of France. Apply here
BACK TO THE CAMINO – 2 places
Join our partner João on “The Way.” In October we are back in the Camino for one more journey of self-discovery where you can explore your needs, desires, fears, and obstacles that keep you from reaching your potential. Apply here
COSTA VICENTINA – 2 places
The Fisherman’s Trail is one of the most beautiful coastal trails in the world. Join our partners João and Nuno on this journey, always by the sea and with plenty of space for yourself. Apply here
ALUMNI PROGRAM – 4 places
For the first time, we will have an exclusive alumni program. We will wrap up the year in the stunning Sierra Blanca in the south of Spain. This is the opportunity to meet old and new friends. Apply here
GIFT VOUCHERS AND REFERRALS
Can I offer the WM experience to other people? Yes, you can! Check the different options for Gift Vouchers and share the Love.
What about if I refer the program to a friend? You will receive a voucher every time you refer our program to a friend. The value depends on the final value of the program, and you will be able to redeem it yourself or offer it to someone else. Make sure they refer to your name on the registration process.
HOW CAN WE WALK TOGETHER?
Walking Mentorship is a labor of love that helps you gain deeper insight and equips you to create a meaningful impact on your life and those around you.
How can we work together? We keep things simple by offering Individual, Group, and Corporate programs. Find the best fit for you and book a call with one of our mentors.
Until then, keep walking with me,
